I wish I was able to brush it off as easily as you (and many others) as it would make my life much easier ha. It could be how I was raised, with harsh views towards waiting for marriage (although I too fell short of that). It very well may be the immaturity in my mind, but I personally would like to know I have someone who would not just go home with anyone or does not have the reputation of being "easy". She is a very attractive woman and I'm sure she has had many other opportunities that she did not engage in, so I'm not saying that either of those statements are true to her. Once again, this is all preference and I'm not saying that I'm the one who has the right mindset. I have friends who are in "open relationships" and others that are "swingers" and I don't cast judgement on them. However for me, I prefer to know that others aren't talking about their expereince with my partner. However as I've admitted, I now have a past and it would be wrong of me to expect someone to accept mine if I can't accept someone else's. I guess I'm looking for advice on how to accept it and move forward.

Thanks