I didn't know that title said that much. But thanks for the input. To me it's simple: don't ever hurt your children's feeling. Taking care of them emotionally is as import if not more important than taking care of them physiologically. But I don't know, maybe because I don't have children, and this is not realistic, but personally my life is ruined because of how they have treated me. I grew up very self-conscious of my sayings and doings. They have expected too much from me as a child and now as an adult, and I have been told by them that I am lucky to have them over and over again, and they think they are the greatest parents in the world. I just cannot see how they manage to see themselves this way. I understand that people make mistakes, but maybe they don't like to think they are not-so-good parents, instead of facing and confessing their mistakes.