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Originally Posted by Lemoncake
The reason I've fallen out with R at the moment is pretty much very similar- he stopped replying to my emails, without giving me notification after previously allowing me to have that. Maybe it is a psychodynamic thing- he doesn't believe in hugs either. Very paraphrased but someone told me previously that it was to increase the intensity in sessions.
Things I previously did include writing out messages in a notebook and then writing out his reply too, but also if I had an old email I'd mark it as unread and flag it so that it would appear at the top of my inbox and look new.
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Oh those are very creative ways to deal with lack of email responses. I guess I should try to look at some of his old ones. I’ve also tried looking at his webpage to see if that’s comforting. Sort of feels pathetic though.
Regarding increasing the intensity in session, you may be right. He said something about how our relationship was to distant via email and he wanted to bring it in the room, which I agree with logically. I just wouldn’t mind a little email response too.