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Originally Posted by IceCreamKid
You story doesn't make much sense to me. You seem to be talking about a woman has done something sexual with other people--and now she gives you sex, but now that you've had sex with her, you're unhappy with her giving away sex? That's confusing to me.
Maybe the best thing would be to not have sex with someone unless you resolve in your own mind where your receiving sex fits in with other people receiving sex. I hope that makes sense.
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Haha when you put it that way I can see the confusion as well. We abstained for nearly a year while getting to know eachother. I am not against sex, however my preference is that it should be shared with someone you truly care for. Not just given to anyone freely.. (once again this is a matter of personal opinion). She grew up in church and with parents instilling similar beliefs in her. It was that 8-9 month period of time (3 years ago) when she was 21 that all of these situations took place. From her lifestyle now and the way talks about the past (and future) it seems she beleives the same way as I do. I suppose I just struggle with letting the past be the past. My reasoning for presenting the situation was thinking maybe someone else has struggled with a similar situation or mindset and could recommend what they did to move past it.