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Originally Posted by golden_eve
That’s your perception. I mainly talk about my concerns on here and vent about my issues. We’re all here for a reason. Please don’t criticize the fact that I have issues I grapple with yet run a blog on happiness. My blog helps me just as much as it helps others. I write about things I’ve learned along the way that are common obstacles to happiness, some of which I may struggle with too. Just because I blog about ways to be happy does not mean I must be perfect or always happy. And I am generally very happy, the happiest I’ve ever been. You really don’t know me well enough or even in person to be saying these things or coming to such conclusions. It’s a bit offensive. In real life I’m a very positive minded and upbeat person with a positive outlook. Not only that but I have a lot of wisdom to share based on personal experience. What I write about on here is only a snapshot of me, not the whole me. We come here to discuss our problems and issues. Everyone has problems. Even good therapists have their own therapists but does that mean they’re a bad therapist because they too need help? I don’t think it’s contradictory at all. You also make it seem like I go out of my way to be upset about things or to find something to be upset about. Things upset me in life and I need to talk them out. Perhaps I’ll just stop posting here altogether. I feel very criticized for simply having upset emotions. Exactly how my parents treated me.
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I am sorry! Wasn’t my intent to offend or upset you. Of course no one is always happy. It’s unnatural.
I might be completely wrong of course. It just seemed that ruminating too much about events that you can’t change upset you and possibly holds you back. Like every time things are going well for you, somehow you bring this loser up again. He isn’t worth it
Again I could be wrong. When I complain about this or that mundane things , my therapist says “don’t let it stop you from enjoying your life”. So I don’t want you to not fully enjoy your life because this or that happened. Don’t give too much power to losers from the past. That’s just my take on it. Again sorry, not trying to offend.