I am sorry! Wasn’t my intent to offend or upset you. Of course no one is always happy. It’s unnatural.

I might be completely wrong of course. It just seemed that ruminating too much about events that you can’t change upset you and possibly holds you back. Like every time things are going well for you, somehow you bring this loser up again. He isn’t worth it

Again I could be wrong. When I complain about this or that mundane things , my therapist says “don’t let it stop you from enjoying your life”. So I don’t want you to not fully enjoy your life because this or that happened. Don’t give too much power to losers from the past. That’s just my take on it. Again sorry, not trying to offend.