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Originally Posted by BLUEDOVE
Is there some way you could make amends . . . To self or
other,even if it be a circuitous route? Or anonymously?
Think this over,even devious goodness may cleanse.
Blessings,
BLUEDOVE
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I think I already have forgiven everyone else, that felt like the easy part because I can just forget about them. Now it's myself I need to forgive which is harder. I think I understand why but I just can't seem to put it into words.
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Originally Posted by smmath
It sounds like the regret you have is weighing heavily on you. That's a hard thing to hold.
I apologize if this isn't what you need and feel free to disregard what I say. What I've done in the past is craft and send apology emails to those I've hurt(and it was appropriate to do so.) I also made sure that I actually had something to apologize for. Oftentimes I feel the need to apologize for and beat myself up over things that I don't need to. Being overly critical of ourselves and going hunting for all the things we've done wrong can cause much hurt.
I hope you're able to have grace with yourself and forgiveness will come to you.
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I have already made these sorry notes (but not sent them) I've done a few in a thread on here. These things left now only hurt myself.
I have managed to identify a few separate things but it just feels like such a mess. I need to try to find the beginning and have a good think, scribble some notes and try to straighten it all out.