(((((colleen)))))
there comes a time when you need to clear things out, otherwise you run out of room. I have kept a shoe box with a few momentos of my son in it (he never came home either), and I know somewhere in the linen cupboard is the cot bumper that was for him, but apart from that I got rid of everything else that I didn't need . He would have been 6 this year. It was strange tho- I never really got anything ready for him. We had most stuff from our 1st child but nothing extra for him, and nothing 'new' (that I can remember). Maybe that made it easier too?- that's right- I got a double buggy and we donated it to a local organisation supporting families with high needs. But anyway, as you know, he is always there with you, and you will never forget him. Take care (((((colleen)))))