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Old Dec 02, 2018, 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted by TheSeaCat View Post
Hi guys, I’m in a very grumpy mood. I told my dad that I would be moving out that went super well. He’s mad that now he won’t have my rent flowing in, he also told me he doesn’t approve of the path I’m walking. I have honestly given up so much for my parents that l’m sick of it. My dad told me that he wishes he could still control my health and that he doesn’t approve of my male doc or Cardiologist, he doesn’t believe something is wrong with my heart. He also told me that if it was up to him I would be going back to that stupid NP and the stupid PsychNP who put me on an outrageous medication that caused me pain and wouldn’t even listen to me. He thought Latuda was the best Med I’ve ever been on. Haha!

He basically told me I’m making stupid decisions that I have to be in some sort of cycle. I broke up a long relationship, I’m being rude to him in his mind in not letting him tag along to any doctor’s appointment, sorry don’t feel like having them railroaded. You act like you know you everything and in reality you don’t know jack shyt. You’ve picked two of my medical providers and I’ve hated them both. I like my current team of providers, I also like him staying far far away from my health and my job.

I’m a strong women and I don’t need anybody making my decisions besides me.

End of my rant.

Hugs to everyone
I am sorry things didn't go well with your dad. I think in this case you are making a very healthy, wise choice to move out! You are a strong woman as you said! I moved back home for a year after college and found the dynamic stressful. Moving out really helped me grow. Hope things go well for you I think it'll be great!
Hugs from:
liveforsummer, Sunflower123, TheSeaCat