We just called it transference. And it usually showed up as me saying, "you sounded just like my mother there." Then my t would say, "thats funny, because i was just thinking that you were sounding just like your mother there." I internalized a lot of my parents messages and would use them on myself and other people, instead of speaking in my true voice, as my true self. Even my dad would say, if i asked him a question, "well, my father would tell you blah blah blah." So a lot of not taking responsibility in the genes.