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Originally Posted by Lrad123
I think the process of working out the changes together is what’s important and that’s where I am now. I actually agree that in my case maybe his email responses were enabling something and preventing growth, but it still hurts. In my case, I was particularly hurt that the decision was made without consulting me. It felt like the rug had been pulled out from under me and that I was treated disrespectfully. We talked about it last week and I actually felt partially, but not completely better about it. So I’m still thinking about what bothers me and how I’d like the process to go.
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So you agree that these email exchanges were perhaps not good for you. Do you realistically think that you would have reached that conclusion when he would have consulted you? Do you think that if the T had made a proposal to stop responding to emails and you would have had your say about whether to execute it or not then you would have agreed to it?
But you definitely should keep talking to him about it as long as it bothers you and let him explain his reasoning over and over until it either starts fully making sense or it becomes clear that it does not fully make sense and thus changing the rules again could be in order (who knows in which ever ways).