Thank you, Dechan: It was a Baptist church I got a divorce after 31 years of abuse; they voted me out of membership. with my name up on a big screen (3 times) followed by the words, "Conduct Unbecoming a Child of God." I was called to a meeting of deacons (15 men), not allowed to have a woman with me,and asked: Are you still having sex with your ex?! That was because I let him live in my house for awhile after the divorce. They took me out of choir, and I loved singing.