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Originally Posted by feileacan
So you agree that these email exchanges were perhaps not good for you. Do you realistically think that you would have reached that conclusion when he would have consulted you? Do you think that if the T had made a proposal to stop responding to emails and you would have had your say about whether to execute it or not then you would have agreed to it?
But you definitely should keep talking to him about it as long as it bothers you and let him explain his reasoning over and over until it either starts fully making sense or it becomes clear that it does not fully make sense and thus changing the rules again could be in order (who knows in which ever ways).
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I feel like it’s possible that some of the email exchanges were not good for me, but not all of them. I’m just not sure how to decide which ones or which types of emails he should respond to and which not. I think that if he had talked to me about it first, I still would have been upset about it, but would have respected him for it more in the long run. I’m aware there was no easy way for him to do this.
I plan to keep talking about all this. I thought I had my act together, but sent an ultimatum email last night basically indirectly saying if he doesn’t respond today, I won’t show up on Wednesday. I’m not sure what sort of craziness overtook me when I wrote that, but it can’t end well. Ugh.