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Originally Posted by Waterloo12345
Ugh indeed. Since you are thinking more clearly now and see the craziness can you send another email confirming you'll be there and then talk about why you sent it at session? This may stop escalation which as you say can't end well.
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Yes, I’ve thought about sending another email asking him to ignore my last email, but I’ve already unleashed the crazy and it feels hard to take it back. My T has so far been completely unfazed by anything I say or do, so I’m assuming this will fall in that category, but maybe I want to test it out. I technically did not issue an ultimatum. I just said, if you send a one-line response acknowledging my email, then I promise to talk about this email in our next session. In my mind I was thinking that if he doesn’t reply, I have no choice but to not show up in order to save face. I’m assuming he won’t reply, so I will have to figure out whether or not I will go to my session on Wednesday. Very mature, I know.