Hi Speedy...

There is a chair in the room. You are standing at the front of the chair and I am standing facing its back.

I ask you what color the chair is and you say red.

I look at the back of the chair and it is covered in a black felt. I say no,,the chair is black.

But you insist the chair is red.

But of course,,you are right,,as am I.

Much of the world is like this and we all must accept that what we see is not the whole picture.

I would ask your friend to describe her perspective of this cruel friend.

Then,,when you know more about the whole chair,,,make a decision that works best for you.

IMHO.

Lenny