Haha, honestly, sometimes conversation makes me feel like I'm failing an improv class! I was thinking I could come up with some questions to ask him about this and that. I've been totally procrastinating on that. But yeah, it's in the works. And yeah my therapist said the same thing, in terms of finding out if he's with someone. Since it's the holidays, I could ask "what do you do for the holidays? do you have a family? someone special?" I could also just look at his left hand, when he's not wearing gloves, for a ring.