I don't mean to be the only naysayer here, but I'm with your therapist and would also caution against it. How awkward if you DO have to avoid him if it doesn't work out? He comes around your house every single day. I don't think it's a good prospect. Just my honest opinion! I don't mean to burst your bubble, and sorry if I am! Much safer to date those who are not around the workplace, your home, or wherever you frequent.