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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Part of me also thought I could have talked next session about how his self-disclosure made me feel, the mix of feelings, but again, then I'm kind of afraid he'd be like "Oops!" and stop doing it. So, yes, definitely confusing...
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Same! I have so often thought about bringing up how I feel when he discloses. How I like getting tidbits and want to respond like a normal person would but feel I am unable. I am afraid of bringing it up will make him realise that he hadn't been meaning to do it. I mean in reality he might well be aware of what he is doing and it is part of the approach or whatever but still.