McKell, what sorts of things does your T do to make you feel safe?

My T know the right moments to make me laugh. He totally gets my sense of humor and can match me with that.

He looks into my eyes.

He says things like, "No matter what decision you make on this, I will be with you no matter what."

He calls me back regardless of how many freaking times I have called him. He encourages more calls if I need them.

He never lets me forget how much he truly enjoys working with me.

All of these things make me feel safe and securely attached to him.