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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Yes it is OK. You must take care of yourself. This is co-dependency... being there for someone, helping them, even though it's hurting you and extremely toxic for you. I suggest therapy for yourself to get through this. You have to let her go somehow. She has family members that this man called, so they are alive and can also be there for her, if need be. (((hugs)))
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Thanks for the reply. I totally agree. I have had some therapy recently due to self esteem issues etc so maybe this is why I am now re-evaluating this relationship and realising it isn't any good for my well-being.
I don't want to leave her on her own, but it isn't healthy unfortunately.
