Two things:

1. its been requested that we dont use (((parens))) to hug anymore on PC, see recent discussion in Community & Technical Feedback for more info, thanks.

2. Re lemon - i think this is what my t did too. Once he got a sniff of me just not being as committed as i used to be - once i started cancelling sessions, which was TOTALLY unlike me, for WHATEVER reason - he just called me on my behavior. He did not enter into a folie à deux with me. No games, conscious or otherwise. He straight out told me, "i dont know what this is, but it's not therapy anymore." So. Harsh!

ETA - Actually 3 - not calling you out, artie, just using your post. Sorry! so glad to have you back!