I tried to talk to the first one about negative bonding but she scoffed. The second one said she only worked for clients who did not set off her main issues. For me at least, the second one did not seem to have trouble with it. I think the second one was the better therapist for me although I was not particularly connected to her positively or negatively. The second one did not care if she was loved or not and the first one very much wanted it.