And uh, I'm also obsessed with the idea that you have to be at least a little naive in order to not experience trauma beyond the bare minimum. Take someone I vaguely know from somewhere, she's 17 years older than me (39) and has a cutesy teenage vibe to her. And I can't help but wonder if the fact she is still this perky has something to do with her lack of awareness in some areas. (For one, she just realized what a trigger warning was a couple of weeks ago because she saw one on Facebook.)