I’m curious how you all feel about this. I’ve heard people say that they want a T who has been through similar stuff, or at least something traumatic so that they know they understand.

I’ve heard others say they wouldn’t want a T who previously struggled with similar problems.

What do you prefer? Do you know if your T has any history like/unlike yours?

Would you want to know if your T has or has not experienced trauma or mental health issues?