My mom died in 2014. It does get easier some days but some days you just miss your mom or are reminded of something. Like someone says it is like peaks and valleys some days you feel okay and other days like i said you get triggered and the grief hits you again. Eventually you have more peaks and good times and less valleys of grief but it never really goes away. There is always going to be something to remind you of her. After awhile Your grieving won't be as intense. It is a process. It takes time. Don't let people put a timeline on how long to grieve for. It takes as long as it takes and especially be good to yourself. Be kind to yourself. Grieving is hard.