Thank you all for your Thoughts, and Prayers. Yesterday was very hard bc I knew how it was all going to turn out, and I knew there wasn't anything I could do about it. My H, and I talked a lot last night, and I found out that he had a very hard childhood, and was emotionally, and physically abused, but his way to protect him self is completely different than mine. I know he will never go to see anyone, but at least He is talking, and we understand each other better. It is hard to realize that you can be with someone over 25 years, and not know about things. My SIL passing yesterday gave me, and my H a new understanding about each other.