I never have if something happens and I dont see a T then it just moves to the next T I am with. I only see females because I dont like men. I have seen men on a couple of occasions but typically I dont. I find them uncaring. My mom was was emotionally abusive so I had always been looking for a good mother figure and it hasnt changed so I look for that in Ts. I always get dissapointed because they dont want mother a 42 year old woman.