I think it's complete nonsense

I asked my T how come this isn't hard for him at all and he went on about how this isn't about him and it's not my job to care for him. I was really pissed at that. After all the crap we've been through and shared, he's gonna try and act annoying now.

I don't get how showing concern and being a decent human is taking care of someone nor do I get how wanting someone to seem like they care, is taking care of them. I have learned one thing about therapy, it takes the humanity out of people... and for kind hearted folks, it really can mess you up worse.