Thanks Lennie. This is really helpful to what I'm trying to do.

What I'll do is scramble/ change your name to preserve anonymity, or if you like you could chose a name of your own new one.
if you keep an eye on the website, you'll see how its been fitted in, its still not finished, but getting nearer.
I am really grateful, its just what you said, sort of captured so many aspects of the whole self in exile expereince.

If you like, I'll explain more about why I think what you said expresses things so well. Theres an aspect of this that I'd like to ask your opinion on too, but I dont want to go on at great length without that you express an interest.

All the best, hope you well.

riverx