You JUST THINK people can't see the real you. Got news for you, some of us are very good at knowing your kind & staying away no matter what kind of face you put on. Which means you are NOT totally is control of who you have around you.....only people who are too naive to recognize your kind of person.
You are the kind of person that people finally recognize as being abusive....not the reputation most people would want to have except those with narcissistic tendencies.
You wouldn't stand a chance on my radar.