I am still in therapy, slowly wrapping things up. I don't see it as "transference not worked through". What a silly thought. For now I benefit from still going, it is a way of self care, not a sign of transference or dependancy. I benefit from discussing my issues and history with a professional, and as long as one finds it does good, I can't see where the problem is. In a way it is like gym or hairdresser for someone else. Something that improves the quality of life.