Nothing wrong with your feelings. Annoyance is in the spectrum of anger. It sounds like he used what is known as confrontation to try to propel things forward. My T has used that with me when I was stuck (with something unrelated).

This post makes it look like he's cold or short or something. But in reading your other post, he sounds like he's trying to move your forward. You also said you stopped some significant behaviors since seeing him. I'd consider continuing with him.

I think what he's doing is moving you out of passive and dependent mindset. Starting new patterns might not be a bad thing. For people who struggle with impulse control issues, wrapping up in a blanket with hot cocoa can be a trap one falls into to escape. As well as regression to childhood mindset, especially when viewing yourself as having an inner child needing nurtured. It might be easy to do with those who are more balanced, but I support the development of new habits if that will help.