Yikes, that's a LOT of insecurity to deal with... you sure you want to deal with that?? How long have you been with him? I don't know about you, but I wouldn't be able to tolerate someone needing SO much reassurance... and then having to worry about their feelings all the time. Sounds like way too much work, early on. Yes, relationships can be work, but they don't need to be THAT much work so soon, or exhausting like that.