thanks Zig! ... thanks (((muffy))))) ... she gets by.... i cant fix everything for her tho i wish to heck i could.... she doesnt seem able to help it at times.. i know you both know.... she hurts and thats why she's this way.... yes... i am doing my most to be the good son... after a life of loss, and being lost... it is someplace to belong.....

thank you both so much for responding (((Friends)))))