Wow.

I just...thank you. As I process what came up at the last session, I realized a lot of my initial emotional reaction was because it stomped on a pretty big nerve. After a few deep breaths, I can recognize that THIS isn't THAT. But it sure brought up a lot around what it was like to be in couples therapy with the kids' dad.

I suddenly realize how tricky that must have been for you then, all of the things you could see before I could, and I suddenly recognized in a new way, looking back, some of the ways you created a measure of protection and safety for me. That safe space, that bit of cushion offered me the boost up that I needed to start moving toward this place where I can even look back with this distance and perspective.