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Originally Posted by downandlonely
This is a tough situation Jenny. Seems like he has power over you and might compel you to do things you don't want to do. Can you talk to human resources or an unbiased third party about him? Maybe you can switch to a different department where he is not your direct supervisor. It seems that you're very vulnerable in your current position.
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Thank you for the kind words! This situation troubles me quite a bit.
He did not cross any lines (e.g. no explicit comments, no overt moves). I got to know him as a person and I found him to be a great boss and a mentor. His way of dealing with me helped me get through my anxiety problems and helped me get more confident profession-wise. In light of this, I do not want to harm him in any way. Nevertheless, I am very bothered by the situation. Every morning I wake up hoping that I am just imagining things. But then I get to work and see all the weirdness. If anything, I want to leave quietly... Ideally, I would love to stay, but things are not looking good...