It’s nothing to do with communication. People are who they are. This woman likes to spend all night in the nightclub. It’s fine but it’s not the type of woman you want so why date her? You keep dating women who are wrong for you. Dating wrong people and telling them you want them to change is pointless. You need to date right people from the start. I
Think it’s pretty obvious who people are after just few dates. You don’t need to get involved if their life style doesn’t match yours