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Old Dec 09, 2018, 04:03 AM
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Originally Posted by DechanDawa View Post
Thanks. Well, the title of this thread says it all. I have absolutely no idea how I am perceived. I miss my sister. She was the most compassionate nurse who ever lived...except maybe my Mom who was also a nurse. They both died young and suffered a lot. I feel guilty. I just feel like I should develop myself more. I come from a family of over-achievers...and I don't want to just be alive taking up space.

You are the bug whisperer! I think that is just so very charming...


I have no idea either. I hide myself or change myself for the environment. I think everyone does this, but I feel I do it so much I’ve forgotten who I am and so don’t have a clue how I come across to others. I don’t know if I’m consistent. Am I quiet? Loud? Funny? Sweet? Annoying?

I think we can’t control how we are perceived by others, and some people will perceive us in a different way to other people. My actions to one person may come across as sweet, whereas others may perceive it as weird. I think as it is outside of us we can’t control it and that’s what makes us feel confused.

I would like to be able to show myself more. The real me! If I ever find out who that is [emoji53]
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