We all have different ways of things coming out. When I had conflicts with my ex before we finally divorced I would have reoccuring dreams that I was either fighting to get away from him or fighting to get away from my parents.....I know neither really physically happened IRL but definirely emotionally. Sometimes we just have to go with it I work on integrating that past with our present. My T helped me with that after intense DBT group for 2 years helped me learn necessary skills to handle my life in the now.