I'm so sorry you're struggling, Idontknowwhy234 I agree with you that he's not behaving in the best way. This doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship. I would propose couple counselling, but you said it didn't work... did you learn anything from it? I'm sorry he's not treating you with the respect and love you need and deserve. If anything, from what he wrote, he sounds like the one who's passive agressive. If it continues to be like this, and he doesn't want to change, I think you may want to reconsider your marriage with him. It doesn't sound like a good situation, neither for you or the kids. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this