He tried to give me an example of what he meant. He was feeding his kids animal shaped macaroni & cheese and he was eating it while feeding them and it made him feel like a kid. I was annoyed right then and there. It is not doing kid things that make me feel like a child. It is trying to sooth the child part of me that takes the drivers seat and it can happen when I am already doing "adult" things. Doing more adult things does not work as I do not make the best decisions or can not focus correctly when in that state so I hunker down.