we think you got it on the button there ((((((wmd))))))

if us & our half-sister could have compared notes, we could have caught all that RUBBISH we'd been told

they told HER that our father had died during WW2
as we weren't born 'til after the war this was plainly crap, anyway he lived til 1969.

even our first cousins, they made sure we couldn't compare notes (they from the other side, maternal)

ya know, we just decided to forget the lot of them ? it's not worth a moments thought, we gave it far too much thought.