I had intense maternal “transference” for ex T. While I go back and forth about whether I want that level of connection with my new therapist, at the moment, I really don’t want to experience the pain that comes with feeling intensely connected ever again. With that said, I am wondering if age plays a role for those of you who experience maternal transference with your T? Do you only experience maternal attachment if they are old enough to be your mother? Or do you experience maternal attachment even if they are only say 10 years older than you?