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Originally Posted by snarkydaddy
It is a common mistake when a person is learning to set values they over-do-it and can build fortress' instead. This comes from not having expressed values in place or not knowing how to assert ones self for example. Boundaries are an expressed set of values which are learned ideally from their parents, but that is not what this thread is about. This thread is about symptoms of PD's being masked as boundaries.
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I can see what you’re saying here. Ultimately a person has to act within their own core values, which means they have to know them and define them. If not then there is trouble. So ppl are too immature to be in relationships, myself included, because they have adult child issues and were never fully allowed to grow up. Like they were given responsibility but that’s it.