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Kiya said:
i've noticed that many ts do not discuss SI. I don't know why - if it bugs them, or they think talking about it makes it ok to do more?

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I know that here, besides making sure that you are safe and do not need medical care, SI is mostly 'ignored'. I think that this is to put the onus onto yourself, and so that you are not gaining any attention from it (ignore the fact that in 99% of cases ppl who SI go to great lengths to hide it, not flaunt it!). Also, too many t's have no understanding about SI at all, and are afraid to talk about it. My t has asked me 'in depth' questions about it a couple of times, to give her a bit more understanding from my POV...