I didn't want my wife there to be my secretary, taking notes on what was said. I didn't want my wife to be there because I had a touchy subject and needed to tell her with my Pdoc's support. I didn't want my wife there so she could see how well (or not) I was doing. I asked my wife to come to my appointment because I was having some neurological problems which expressed themselves by stuttering and stammering, and shaking, and I wanted my wife to take over talking, if I was unable to. As it turned out, my Pdoc said something I didn't like, and my wife said something I didn't like, either. Today, I might find out when my T is coming back from her medical leave.