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Roses are falling.
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Dec 10, 2018 at 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog
What those people are doing at you:
"World-renowned trauma expert Janina Fisher has spent decades uncovering strategies to help even the most closed off and challenging attachment trauma clients.
One of the most effective methods, she explains, is the use of the social engagement system—the neural system that controls facial muscles, eye movement, and the tilting and turning of the head and neck.
"How we use our eyes, our facial muscles...those are secret weapons that help clients feel safe."
Secret Weapons? Feel Safe? good god.
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A baby could literally teach you the same thing! I watched this documentary called help me love my child. It followed a mother who suffered with severe depression, who decided to see a T at the Anna Freud center. Her child was only 5 months old, but found her mother's face blank face distressing- so would turn her little head away from the mother when she spoke to her. It was just so strange to watch that even at that age that child tried to adapt to distress.
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