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Old Dec 10, 2018, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted by dihahey View Post
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It makes sense that he was curious but why not be curious with one of the sister's that was closer to his age? Wouldn't that be more appropriate? I had another sister that was just 2 years younger than him and another that was 3 years younger than him.

I'm not sure how to know if it was trauma or not. I cry every time I write or think about it which makes me believe it is. I don't know
Well, he probably figured you were the one that was more apt to not say no because you were so young. Also, you don't know for sure if he had tried something with the other two either. It's normal to get very uncomfortable talking about this issue. Keep in mind, even a 12 year old is just a child and often extremely naive. It could be your brother experienced someone that explored with him too. Go easy with this, it actually happens more than you know, it's something that most NEVER talk about.
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