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nowheretorun said:
she inaudibly answered that it was to late now.. angrily.... like i had failed to help her...

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Oh, nowhere! Why do you take it out on yourself? You're such a good son. I think she was angry at herself and her needs and for not being able to get it done and having to rely on you.

You gave her a choice and she didn't want to see that she could fail; wanted seamlessness, where you'd pick up where she left off and it all would blur together. You can't give her that.