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missunderstood93 · 08:07 PM

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I am soo confused, the other day I went on my laptop and tried to login to my outlook account but my boyfriend of 6 months left his email signed on. When I glanced at his emails I noticed he has been responding to Craigslist adds. I noticed the dates of the when the email where sent and it was at the first 2 months of our relationship. Then I noticed one that was just a few weeks ago.

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The titles of the emails where disturbing to me "hung-28yr-male-MFT", I clicked on one email and noticed there was numerous messages between him and another man. My boyfriend had sent explicit photos of him self to a guy who responded to his Craigslist post.

As I was skimming through the emails I noticed he had met up with this man and was paid to have sex with him. The man also had sent him a message saying "it was cool meeting you last weekend let me know if you're down to meet up again sometime and are you cool with $200 every time?".

I then noticed that there we other messages more recently, my boyfriend gave the guy his new phone number which he got 2 months ago and was looking to meet up with him again.

I have not brought this up with him yet and I do not know how to bring this up, I am so confused and hurt. I really need some advice on what to do, I am not against peoples sexuality or want to make him feel embarrassed about his sexuality. But I do not want to be with someone who is cheating or thinking about cheating on me with anyone (man/woman/or another gender).

How do I bring this up and what should I do about this?